In 2008 I embarked upon a grand journey. I wanted to know why I had strong feelings of unworthiness, shame and self-hate buried deep within, despite having never been directly shamed by my parents or any religion. I also wanted to know why so many seem to struggle with varying forms of self-aggression, believing they
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Family
Dealing With the Divide: A Step-by-Step Guide for Navigating a Politically Divided Family
The country is reeling after the most divisive presidential campaign season and election in recent memory, and now many find themselves turning away from the media to get a much needed break and to spend time connecting with friends and loved ones. However, for some there is no escaping the fresh wound of this divide. I
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Relationships
The Drive for Romantic Love: Understanding the Neurobiology Behind Why We Fall in Love & Who We Fall in Love With
To begin, if you would please take a minute to think back to the moment you met the last person you truly fell in love with. Close your eyes and notice how vivid you can make the memory. Do you remember exactly how their face looked or the way they smelled? Chances are some pretty clear details
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Wellness & Happiness
Jumping for Joy: Unleashing the Power of Exercise for Mental Health & Wellbeing
As a psychotherapist one of the questions I always ask my clients in the first session is “Do you exercise regularly and if so how much?” This is actually a common question in the mental health field, the importance of which is backed by a good deal of research. Whether you are an avid exercise
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Wellness & Happiness
What is Sanity? Exploring the Meaning of Mental Health and the 6 Signs of Sanity
One of the questions I regularly ask myself, as a psychotherapist, is “What is sanity?” In other words, how do we/I define mental health so we can know if things are improving? This is a very important question because it informs the very foundation of the practice of counseling. For me, this question often spurs
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Trends
Psychedelic-Assisted Psychotherapy: What You Need to Know About the Coming Sea Change in Mental Health
A change is coming to the field of mental health and it’s not what you might expect. Given current trends, it would not be imprudent to assume that this change might include better step-by-step workbook protocols able to be administered by computers for short-term care and backed by the research of health insurance companies, but it’s
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Wellness & Happiness
When Your Body Speaks Your Mind Listens: Harnessing The Power of Body Language to Change Your Reality
Today it is generally understood that body language is a big part of how we communicate and therefore plays a significant role in how we are perceived by others. According to the research of Albert Mahrebian, communication is 55% body language, with an additional 38% attributed to tone of voice, totalling a whopping 93% as non-verbal. This leaves
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Technology
Your Brain is Changing While You Read This: The Impacts of Reading Online and How to Develop a Balanced Bi-Literate Brain
It might sound cliché to say that everyday Americans are spending more time online, however the truth of this statement continues to increasingly shape our culture. Just in the past few years everyday activities like banking, socializing, shopping, and reading, have exploded in popularity in the digital world. The rule of thumb seems to be
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